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The Workaholics Guide To Getting Some R&R

how to take a break without feeling guilty

I'll admit it, I'm the obsessive type. Once I get motivated to do something I tend to go full steam ahead and although this is a little too much of a train metaphor for my liking, I get tunnel vision and it becomes hard for me to see where and when I should brake. I'll work and work and work and then all of a sudden I hit a wall and it's called exhaustion.

This isn't a 'poor me' rant but sometimes I really do have to force myself to take breaks and it wasn't until my recent Hawaii trip (which you can read about here) that I actually rested a little and realised just how important those kinds of breaks are. If this all sounds familiar to you, here are some easy ways to incorporate a little R&R into your life-


Oahu, Hawaii. 
Start with small breaks. 
Don't jump from working every night till midnight to doing nothing at all because if you're anything like me that will just make you feel stressed and like you're ditching your responsibilities. Instead, schedule yourself little chunks of time throughout the day where you know all you'll be doing is anything you want to do, whether that be watching TV/youtube, reading, listening to music, exercising, knitting, drawing or whatever else floats your boat.

Use others as an excuse. 
If you feel fine allocating a day or a few days for a solid break then by all means go ahead and do that for yourself, but if that would make you feel guilty or if that's just not practical for you then a great way to get in a little breathing space is to make plans with friends or family. A coffee catch up, a brunch date or seeing a movie with someone- all of these things offer opportunities to take a mental break from everything and because all of these things involve another person, no matter how busy you are you can always use the excuse "they're relying on me to not flake out on them..." to ensure you actually take that break and go!

Delegate things to the 'future' you and prioritise your current self.  
Whenever I'm feeling really stressed, something I like to do is to refer to myself in the third person (apparently that's one of the first signs of being a psychopath?!). What I mean by that is if it's a Friday night and I'm tired with a huge list of things I need to get done in the next few days, instead of worrying about everything to come I'll prioritise the 'current' version of myself and just focus on the present moment by saying to myself "Saturday morning's version of Julia can handle that." I know this may sound like a weird tactic but it actually keeps me grounded in the moment and it's really helpful in terms of making sure I don't run myself into the ground. I'll admit, sometimes I give 'tomorrow's version' of me a little too much to handle but it's all worth it if today's version is well rested and happy. PS, please tell me I'm not starting to sound like a psycho...?

Go hard or go home. 
Book a holiday. It's an indulgent, treat yo'self (Parks and Rec fans unite), sometimes impulsive decision but booking yourself a holiday is one of the greatest things you can do for yourself in my opinion. Book something across the world or an hour away from home, just go somewhere with the pure intention of relaxing and taking a vacation from your 'real' life. Your responsibilities will be there when you get home, so enjoy yourself.

Are you a workaholic? Do you have trouble with giving yourself breaks?

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  1. OMG! Yes!! I am exactly the same way! When I fall in love with something new, I totally get addicted! I have to remind myself all the time...break!

    Mel | www.thegossipdarling.com

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    1. Yeah my problem is that I never seem to break before I just get exhausted!

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  2. I get carried away so much and forget about everything else that I may have to do or see, it's ridiculous! Taking breaks are essential!
    Charlotte // www.charlottespicks.com

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    1. I tend to carried away with things as well, it's a habit of mine that I feel like is sometimes good and sometimes awful!

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  3. Absolutely love this hun, so so perfect for me and such fab points too (I always use coffee catch ups as an excuse to get out). Stunning photo too!

    Elle
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    1. They're the perfect excuse for a little break aren't they? Really glad you liked this post (and the photo!) Elle :)

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  4. I should always remind myself to take small breaks! Very useful post.
    Marilyn x

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  5. I love the idea of referring to yourself as the 'future you'! I think I'll try it out :) I love going to the cinema to relax, it's a good way to get me off my phone!
    Brigitte x

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    1. So glad you understood what I meant by that, I was worried it would sound like I'd completely lost the plot! Let me know if that tactic works for you :)

      I love going to the movies as well, it's the perfect excuse to switch off from everything for a while.

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  6. So useful; i am very much someone who is all or nothing so I go hard at something until i burn out

    Nat Dignifiable

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    1. I tend to do the same, but I always regret it when I burn out.

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  7. I am loving the first photo - what camera are you using, it's juts stunning and the way the sun hit the lens!! gorgeous hun!! Beautiful post and loving all your tips, it's great to make some time for yourself as it really does help you feel a lot less stressed!!

    Hope you're having a lovely week! :)

    Layla xx

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    1. So glad you liked the photo! I swap between using a Canon and an Olympus camera and this one was taken on the Olympus, just email me if you want any more details! :)

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  8. I really enjoyed reading your post. I'm the same way and sometimes I forget to take care of myself and wind up getting sick or completely exhausted. I love treating myself to an adventure here and there =o)

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    1. I love that you enjoyed reading this post, from the comments it seems like quite a lot of us are forgetting to take care of ourselves!

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  9. Definitely agree with these tips! So hard to break away from work sometimes but it gives you a chance to reboot and come back refreshed and better than ever!

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    1. Yeah I agree, breaking away from the work is probably the hardest part but then that feeling of being refreshed and ready to go again is so motivating!

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  10. As a workaholic... these tips are very helpful! Thank you! =)

    - Cielo
    Mermaid in Heels

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  11. I'm a workaholic, when I'm having a break I freak out as I feel like I'm wasting my life away... sort of like right now haha even though I'm supposed to be on holidays!

    Sally - DiagonSally

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    1. Ah I'm the same! I hate that when I take breaks I can feel guilty about it though.

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  12. I'm a workaholic, when I'm having a break I freak out as I feel like I'm wasting my life away... sort of like right now haha even though I'm supposed to be on holidays!

    Sally - DiagonSally

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  13. These are helpful tips because sometimes I overdo things too. Thanks much.

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    1. It seems like a lot of us tend to overdo things, that's why I think taking breaks is so important!

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  14. Starting with small breaks is a really great tip - it's a gentle way of reminding yourself how to relax :) Though I've got to admit delegating things to 'future me' has never turned out too well haha. Have a lovely weekend gorgeous!

    Gabrielle | A Glass Of Ice x

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    1. Yeah I think it's all about how much you delegate and doing what works for you, sometimes that tactic really works for me and sometimes not so much, haha

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  15. A think a lot of us are guilty of taking on too much so this was a helpful read. Thanks for sharing and I'll be taking some of your tips on board!

    www.Barely There Beauty.com | British Beauty & Lifestyle blog

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    1. That's really great to hear Jennifer :)

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  16. Loving these tips girl!! I must admit I used to always work for hours then just stop everything completely! Now I've started to organise things more and find it much more productive x

    Jenny | Krystel Couture + Giveaway

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    1. That's brilliant Jenny! It sounds like you've sorted out a really great system :)

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  17. I’m the same as you Julia, I literally only realise that I’ve been working all day when I start to feel starving. I’ve definitely got a little better at taking breaks though. I watch a few youtube videos at maybe one or two intervals a day. I definitely need to get better at putting plans in the future like you said though. I always seem to want to get ideas done as and when I think of them. That’s probably the thing I’d love to change about myself most. Again I love all of your 'tips' blog posts - I always find them so relaxing to read.:)

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    1. I do the same with Youtube, I find it to be such a good relaxer for me to just sit down and watch a couple of videos (although let's be real sometimes you fall down the Youtube rabbit hole and end up watching for way longer...)

      I love that you're enjoying these kinds of blog posts, it makes me want to write more of them :)

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  18. One of the hardest things for me right now is trying to take breaks and be away from technology. Great advice darling!

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    1. I know the feeling, sometimes I feel like I'm surgically attached to my laptop!

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  19. I can totally relate to you, hun! I do get stressed out really easily and sometimes it's difficult for me to just pause and relax. I think it's important to always take some time out just for yourself to clear your head, and do something relaxing. :) Lazy pyjama Sundays are my favourite way to unwind! x

    Kay
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    1. I feel the same way and get stressed out easily as well, I hate that about me! I do agree that lazy pyjama days just in general are the best though :)

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  20. I am a workaholic, though I like it that way because I get depressed when I'm bored. My "work" isn't all urgent so I'm able to put it aside when events or friend invites occur :)

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    1. That sounds like a great system you've got going, I think if you can put things aside to make friends for family and friends then that's brilliant :)

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  21. This is such a great post and such a good reminder! Things have definitely been on the relaxing side for me lately, but when I'm busy, I forget to take breaks. It's good to remember to take time for yourself. Great tips!

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  22. Great tips! I often get overwhelmed with the amount of work I have to get done. Small breaks or meeting friends, or even playing a game with my son, are welcome breaks. R&R is so important!

    Di from Max The Unicorn

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    1. I tend to get overwhelmed really easily as well which is why I sometimes have to force myself to step away and just take a break. Agreed, R&R is so important for all of us!

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  23. You are definitely not a psycho ;) I loved these tips! especially the delegate to future me. I really want to put that into practice! xX

    kynialikethecountry.blogspot.com

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    1. haha thank you for confirming that Kynia, that makes me feel better! Let me know how delegating things to the future you goes :)

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  24. Isn't it funny that we have to tell ourselves that we should do things in small chunks? You would think it's such a simple thing, but I catch myself going overboard all the time!!

    Heba xx || The Heba

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    1. So very true! It sounds so basic yet it's so difficult to actually put into practice sometimes.

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  25. These are such great tips! I totally agree with taking little breaks. I've even taken to "scheduling" in my breaks so it feels like it's a natural part of my workday. Since I work from home, it's so easy to just plop down at the computer and not get up until dinner time. So scheduling these breaks remind me to take care of myself (and eat)!

    Stephanie ● Sartorial Diner

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    1. I do the exact same thing Stephanie! I like scheduling my breaks as well because I feel like I'm getting things done even if I'm just taking a break :p

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  26. Oh, I can so relate to this! I'm the obsessive type as well to put it mildly. But I agree it's really important to give oneself a break now and then.
    Christina ♥ https://caliope-couture.com

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    1. I absolutely agree, thanks Christina! :)

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  27. We all work so much we forget that we need some loving and a good night's rest too. Great post!

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    1. Thank you so much Veronica, and I couldn't agree more!

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  28. I think most people find it hard to relax and fully switch off, learning how to do it properly can take years! These tips are really great :-)
    xoxo
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    1. I'm definitely still trying to perfect it myself, I find it so difficult to switch off mentally.

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  29. I'm loving all these tips, exactly what I needed to read! you are so on point with the second tip, thanks for sharing! love the photos too

    xx Melis
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    1. Thank you Melis! I was actually just reading one of your posts a minute ago and I was loving it too :)

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  30. Great tips and photos. Thanks for sharing

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  31. Some really great tips, I really needed this article.

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  32. I was a workaholic when I was in my 20s but that changed as soon as I hit 30 and realized there were much more to life than slaving over work. Great tips here and I especially love the one about using others as your excuse, no harm with catching up with friends. xx

    Shireen | Reflection of Sanity

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    1. Those are my thoughts exactly. I'm in my early 20s and I can already tell that if I keep working at the pace I am then I'm going to just continuously burn out.

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  33. God, I can really relate to this article. I'm only 21 but feel as if I must be working my butt off every single day - end up feeling burned out so fast. These are amazing tips! x

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    1. I'm 22 and I feel the exact same way, I always seem to be exhausted by the end of the day!

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  34. It's really important to take breaks from time to time. Our body and mind need it or else we are going to feel burnt out.


     Miriam ♥ A whole lot of serendipity

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    1. I couldn't agree more, thanks Miriam :)

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  35. Great tips!!
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  36. This is a great post! I struggle so much with relaxing. I'm very organized and begin to get overwhelmed if I don't feel like I'm getting things done. I definitely need to start taking small breaks and doing relaxing things during that time :)

    Let's Talk Lattés

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    1. I can relate because I often feel the same way, like if I'm just relaxing then I must be doing something wrong or like I'm not doing enough!

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  37. I always priortize! It's a must each and every day. Because you just can't get to it all. LOL This was very good!
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  38. I'm the sort of person who works non-stop for days and then has a month of not feeling motivated which is why I try to give myself breaks between work so I can keep my motivation levels high!
    Aleeha xXx
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  39. Love this!! Great tips! x

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  40. Firstly, love,love,love that first photo of you looking into the sunset! Also, I think the tip about living in the present and letting future you handle /do whatever happens or needs to be done later instead of now is brilliant. I like the old saying "the past is history, tomorrow is a mystery and today is a present" - we should enjoy our presents :)

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    1. You always have the best phrases and sayings to share Phoebe :)

      I hope delegating things to the future you and staying more in the present works for you as well! I'm also so glad you liked the photo too :)
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  41. I love your blog so much and great tips! This helps a lot :)

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  42. I can't even tell you how much I needed to read this post, I struggle a lot with resting as I literally don't stop, but it is so important! Really trying to let myself relax a lot more, thanks for the tips!! x

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    Whit

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    1. Thanks Whit, I think we all need to slow down a little. I feel like so many of us are not stopping or letting ourselves relax!

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  43. You.are.speaking.to.me. And I love it.

    You sound like me. Or I sound like you. It's incredibly hard for me to stop when I'm in the flow of a gigantic task list. I get into this intense swings where I'll just go on a working rampage. I'll spend 15 hours a day for a week just working nonstop, with the occasional dog-walk break (thank you, Walter, for giving me exercise).

    I really want to try that 3rd person trick because I have a feeling that might work for me. When I hit a wall, and I'm already exhausted, I refuse to stop and walk away to re-evaluate the situation. I just keep on going until I completely burn out. I think delegating to a more refreshed me might be my solution.

    Thanks for sharing these super useful tips!

    xo
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    1. haha thank you Natalija, I'm glad you can relate (or we can relate?). Thank goodness for your dog so that you at least get a little break, it sounds like you're an extremely hard worker!

      I really hope that my 3rd person trick does work for you, especially because I know exactly what you're talking about when it comes to just working till you burn out. Doing my 3rd person trick is sometimes the only thing that works to get me to stop!

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  44. I definitely have trouble giving myself a break, but that's because now when I'm commenting on blogs I'm technically "working" but it's not work to me. I do need to take more time away from computers for sure! xx Adaleta Avdic

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    1. I really want to take some more time away from computers as well, if not for some R&R then even just to give my eyes a break from looking at a screen.

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  45. What a nice post - great tips I totally agree with you :)
    xx
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  46. It's true. You really have to have some quiet time to treat yourself. Lately I feel like I have been struggling with that so this post came at the perfect time.
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  47. Such a great post babe! I also find it hard to take breaks but it's always good to remind ourselves that we need to every now and then!

    Ashleigh x
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    1. Thanks so much Ashleigh, yeah sometimes I feel like I need a reminder that I need to take a break glued to my forehead or something! Haha

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  48. This was perfect! Sometimes I work myself so hard and get so stressed out!
    xx, Lavishingg

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    1. I do the same and it's a really stressful cycle!

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  49. I am always a worrier who loves to stress so this was such a helpful post for me. Yes to holidays, such a great thing for rest and recuperation!

    lots of love, Jane
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    1. Exactly! I think the fact that I tend to overwork myself just makes me appreciate holidays even more.

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  50. We really need some R&R to be sane indeed! And lovely photos ;)

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    M
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    1. Thank you and I completely agree! I start to get so grumpy if I don't take some breaks and just work, work, work.

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  51. I also should remind myself to make break! Thanks for the tips!

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  52. These are lovely tips, taking small breaks or having a trip booked is so good! Xx

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    1. I love the feeling of having a trip booked, I feel like it's one of the best feelings!

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  53. Fab tips girl! I've been working super hard the past few days and I feel super tired and stressed out right now. R&R is definitely needed ASAP! x

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  54. I have to modes. 1. I work like crazy and take no breaks and 2. I DO NOT DO A THING!
    I am in the first mode at the moment!
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    1. Ah I don't know whether having those polar opposite modes would be a good thing or a bad thing?

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  55. i think small breaks are super important. it's good to give yourself some time to just relax and detach

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  56. This was so helpful, since I'm always the kind of person that keeps on going. I even feel like I have to 'detox' from working everytime I get an holiday. Loved the article and I have to say I like the style of your blog as well, beautiful pictures! x
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      I know the feeling of having to detox from working on a holiday as well, sometimes it takes me a couple of days to just wind down.

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  57. Such a fab post, I really feel you on the exhaustion front. Since blogging and writing my novel take most of my time outside of my 9-5 job I find it hard to switch off in my downtime. I often wind up trying to do everything and ending up doing nothing whilst getting late nights and then struggling through the next day, a vicious circle of feeling drained yet worrying and trying to draw through the fatigue with all the work I feel I'm behind on. These amazing pointers have totally given me the inspiration I needed The idea of small breaks is awesome, it's definitely important to take time to schedule little moments for doing things we love, so easily forgotten when our working whirlwinds take hold. Hell YES to prioritising something to the future you, such a good tactic! And booking a holiday is always a must too ;)

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    1. I think switching off is so difficult as well, especially when you're juggling a lot of things at once. I completely know what you mean and getting into a viscous cycle of getting drained too, that's one of the main reasons why I feel like I regularly need to delegate things to the future me.

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  58. This is very good advice, whenever i have to post a blog i spend hours in front of the computer and after a while I realize I must take at least a small rest. Thanks for sharing gorgeous!

    Have a wonderful day, xx

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  59. These are great tips. I have a hard time shutting off
    xo
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  60. Lovely post and great pointers!

    XoXo,

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  61. Great post dear!
    Have a nice day,
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  62. I am the same as you - I tend to go full steam ahead until exhaustion..
    Thank you for sharing this lovely post with great tips!
    xx

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  63. I am exactly the same. I have such a strict regime when it comes to blogging that when I went on holiday I would find myself worrying about it!
    I ended up locking my phone in the safe and trying my best to forget about it. I felt so much better after I took the break! x

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    1. The exact same thing happened to me when I went on a holiday recently! I wouldn't think to lock my phone in the safe but actually that's kind of a brilliant idea!!

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  64. Amazing tips, especially taking small breaks and booking a vacation. Tough even on vacation I couldn't stop and worked a couple of hours per day.

    xo
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    1. I agree, when you're on a holiday it's definitely easier said than done to just switch off and rest.

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  65. Thanks for the very helpful tips and I see you are really hard working ...
    Many thanks for your kind comment on my blog. Do you want to follow each other?
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  66. Amazing pics and great post, loved!
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  67. Love this post I'm guilty of going crazy like a workaholic, burning out and then unable to do nothing - and yes totally agree that causes even more stress because it's when you relax that you realise how tired you are hence why my blogging has been sparse of late. I'm learning but me time is definitely important and nothing to feel guilty about but its all about the balance! xx

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    1. Yes I completely agree! I think it's so twisted that it's common to work till we drop yet we feel guilty if we take breaks and try and have some balance?

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  68. Great post! Love all your tips! Thank you for sharing!! <3

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  69. Oh my goodness I feel like this blog post was written to me! I am such a workaholic. I really have to make a point to separate myself from work. Thanks for sharing this and writing it to all the workoholics, like me!

    xoxo Rina
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  70. I am exactly the same way! I have a heard time knowing when to take a break, so this was awesome for me to read. We are headed to Hawaii this weekend too so I loved reading your post about that, such a great guide for a day in Oahu!! xxx

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  71. I absolutely feel the same!!! Just wrote a post myself about planning in breaks, too! It is necessary no matter how much fun working is!

    Love,

    Jessika

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    1. I really enjoyed reading your post as well, obviously we've both been thinking about this topic a lot lately!

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    2. Thank you so much! As well for your comment :) You're right! Setting the right priorities was bugging me the last month(s)! :)

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  72. It is really important to take the break. It makes you feel so much better!!
    xx Jenelle

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  73. I am exactly the same once I have something in my mind and I want it I will keep going till I achieve it. With a family to look after as well I am usually the last person I think about to take a time out as I call them. I am starting to learn how to take me time though and you are right it does make a difference to how you feel. Tanicici xx

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    1. So glad you could relate to this post. It seems like so many of us aren't prioritising breaks for ourselves and we're just going and going and going!

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  74. Impulse holidays are THE BEST! Loving all your tips; sometimes it's hard to turn off!
    Vanessa
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    1. I so agree, I love nothing more than when you kind of hover over the 'book' button and then you just go for it!

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  75. I'm just like you! When I decide to do something I never take a break. It's so important to take those breaks those, but it can be so hard sometimes!

    http://ordinaryvegan.blogspot.co.uk/

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    1. Oh I know! I think it's tough being really strong-minded as well because that makes it even harder to stop and take breaks.

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  76. Oh wow, love it when I read something so relateable to my current situation!
    I really need to take note of all of this, I'm either doing nothing or all at once and right now, I'm doing everything all at once because my brain tells me I need to get it all done in one moment! I do think to myself in third person actually and the whole planning for my future self! I say we're all crazy haha ;)

    Thanks for sharing!

    Jessica
    www.foodandbaker.co.uk

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    1. haha I agree with you! ;)

      I'm currently in one of my all or nothing 'go go go' moods so I need to re-read this post myself!

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  77. Awesome post. Really enjoyed reading this post.
    http://tipsoye.com/

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    1. Thanks Vidya, happy you enjoyed the post :)

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    1. Glad you found this post useful Victoria :)

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  79. These are some fabulous suggestions!!

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  80. oh gosh I am such a workaholic!! This is def on my bookmark tab now . Thanks girl
    Francesca
    Frank Vinyl : A California Fashion Blog

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